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Nicest Bad Boy You Ever Will Meet

Hi there. I am a mid-40s Caucasian male who has been told that he looks very much the part of the bad boy, but who can be the best friend that you could ever ask for.

Who I am:

I am relatively H/W proportionate though not perfect.
I sport lots of ink, yet clean up quite nicely.
I am bluntly honest though never belittling.
I have soared with eagles, but prefer the company of starlings.
I love hard rock but will still tolerate your country music.
I am opinionated, yet open-minded.
I am intelligent and educated though never pompous or pretentious.
I smoke and I drink but not to excess.
I am fiscally conservative and socially liberal.
I have a very old soul but a very young heart.

I am looking to meet a woman in her twenties, thirties, or possibly 40s who enjoys life and likes to laugh. She should want to be a friend first, and be willing to take it from there. She should be h/w proportionate and pretty is always a plus so please send a pic. She must be open-minded and not judgmental of others. I am not interested in high maintenance, sugar babies, or excess baggage. I want a real person who wishes to meet a real man for friendship and possibly more. I can guarantee that there will never be a dull moment. No right-wing conservatives, arrogant types, or closed-minded women need respond.

Leo

Average

5' 9 (1.75 m)

Hazel

Caucasian

Separated

Yes - At Home

No

Arms

Inked All Over, Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Visible Tattoo

Bald

Cat, Dog

No

College Degree

Full-time

Finance / Trading

Compensation Strategy Manager

$75,000USD To $99,999USD

With Kid(s), With Pet(s)

All Is Calm

Yes - Socially

Yes - Socially

Cool Dude

Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious, Outgoing, Dark

Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Family, Dining, Theater, Travel, Camping, Playing Cards, Gambling, Volunteering, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Casino, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

I think that an ideal first date would be to plan a weekend getaway someplace that is not too far to reach but pleasant. Possibly a trip to Seattle, Portland, or Vancouver Canada would be a great location. Of course this date would take place after the typical coffeehouse chats that are pretty much a requisite though not really dates in my mind.

While on the date, we would explore local restaurants, activities, and nightlife, focusing on things that would be new to both people. This would add some fun and adventure to the trip. I prefer to stay at nicer hotels due to the amenities and sleeping arrangements, though in one room would be based on the level of comfort (or beer!) that is had by my date and me.

I have always wanted to take a cross country road trip with someone that I cared about, stopping when we wanted to stop, and staying where we decided to stay. There should be enough time to make the trip in a relaxed manner, so that we could enjoy each place that we wanted to visit without feeling rushed. At night, we could either camp or stay at a hotel depending on the weather and the areas available to us. It would be great to talk, laugh, sing, and listen to music while traveling and to take pictures of all the great sites we would see.

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Obscure

Not Religious

Never

Liberal

My goal in life is to leave behind some positive changes in society in general, and in the lives of my family in particular. I also want to have people that I have come in contact with on more than a casual level to feel that I gave or showed them something which made their life better. I want my legacy to be one of fairness, support, and compassion.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Raunchy

News, Documentaries, Movies

Action, Drama, Horror, Thriller

Rock, Metal

Auto-biography, Biography, History, Horror, Political, Reference

My idea of fun is just doing what makes you happy. I am not into bullshit games or doing something because it is 'expected' or 'accepted'. I have no use for phonies but absolutely enjoy anyone who is real and openminded.

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

In a woman, I cannot help first noticing her eyes and lips and then if I feel physically attracted to her. (Sorry ladies but ALL men do that!). I am not looking for Barbie but some attraction should exist in a relationship and I am sure that feeling will be mutual. I like women who are not afraid to say what they feel and are willing to stand up for what they believe. A woman who is compatible with me should also be nonjudgmental of others, and accepting that there are multiple ideas that may lead to the same goal.

Humor is another important thing for a woman to possess as I enjoy joking around and would hope she would be part of the silliness that can develop. At all times, I will expect and deliver honesty in my relationship and am interested in no games or baggage. Lastly, while I am interested in attractive women, I despise arrogant, high-maintenance types because in my opinion, these characteristics turn the most beautiful woman ugly.

Friend, Date, Intimate