Melissa

I am kind of shy at first but I am very outgoing person once the shyness goes away. I am kind of old fashioned, I was raised by my father and brothers so with that said yes I am very much a Tom boy, I work on my own truck and cuss and kick it sometimes too (I am not a mechanic so I get frustrated at times trying to fix my truck) I have worked in construction most of my life and can damn near build a house on my own. I love painting and doing drywall (I am kind of short so I do walk stilts) I have a lot of skilled trade under my belt from roofing to flooring, basic electrical and basic plumbing but hate to do either of those, I am a bit clumsy and shock myself often when working with electrical and I do not care to mess around in anyone else's body waste including my own lol.. i definitely have an odd sense of humor and seem to always laugh at the wrong time :-) I prefer the cheap date dinner on the tail gate of a truck and looking at the stars over any fancy type of anything. If it involves me wearing anything more then jeans and fill flops, or jeans and boots it's probably not my thing. I would attend this type of outing if it meant something to the person asking me to tag along and I will even look like I am enjoying it but inside injust want to go out my oil stained or painted jeans back on and put my hair in the ugliest messy bun and walk around like nobody can see me lol... with all that said I am also a mother of 4 girls 2 are adults and 2 are not (but one of those 2 thinks she is grown) my children are my first priority along with my work with out my work I can not support what I created, therefore my time that I give away from my kids and my work are very valuable to me so I do not play games, j am straight forward and brutally honest, I am not afraid to speak what's on my mind weather it be good or bad I tend to speak and then think sometime that's a very bad thing... I am a very understanding type of person and I know sometimes life happens and it messes up plans I do not complain unless something happens more often then it should and at that point I speak my peace and then move on if you choose to not take that as a warning then I don't know whatntonsay because when I get to a point I need to confront my partner on something I do not like and then they continue to do so after wards then I walk away. If I am mad, or have my feelings hurt it won't last long so if I say leave me alone and let me calm down, that means I am either gonna go clean something or go for a drive and either one inwill have the music blasted I am not ignoring you I can't hear the phone or hear myself think so that means I can calm myself down and be back to normal happy me and forget whatever I was upset over . As far as my person type.. respect, I am big on respect I will treat you with respect and I want the same in return, if you treat me like an option I will letnyou have the other option and eliminate myself as an option. I am not into friends with benefits and I am not quick to fick in fact it's going to be a while, don't push the issue. If a relationship is built on sex then it will never work, I do not sleep with anyone unless there is some type of feelings involved on my end. And keeping my interest that long it's definitely a task. I am the sole provider and have been for many years, so if i.am interested in you then it's fon your personality nothing else. My father raised me to believe that if you truly love a person they will be the most attractive person to you no.matter what and I do belive in that, and a conversation is help by 2 or more people, that take turns speaking or texting, a conversation is not one person texts 4nor 6 texts and then gets a 2 word reply, that is rude and shows that the person is not truly interested in you. This only let's me type 4000 characters qnd I am running out of space (and yes my text can be thisnlong also) message me of you dare, don't worry i don't bite at first lol

Aquarius

Slim

5' 4 (1.63 m)

Caucasian